Gay Sexuality – How Gay Guys Kiss & Really Have Sex?

Many men in gay sexuality have the same needs and wants as the couples in heterosexual relationships. Most gay men enjoy affections associated with sexual activities and these include kissing, hugging, caressing, massaging, and rubbing each other body during sexual interaction. Many find these affections to be more important than any other sexual behavior. It is a misconception to believe that most gay relationship always involves anal intercourse and the fact is most gay couples are not interested in anal intercourse as part of their sexual activity.

Men in gay sexuality are not so different from heterosexual men except for their sexual orientation. Gay relationship is similar to heterosexual relationship in a sense that problems exist in relationship and regardless of sexual orientation, everyone have their own preference of what they like and dislike in a sexual relationship. Relationship is unpredictable regardless of sexual orientation as some couples are able to make their relationship last long and some only experience short-term relationship.

Gay couples in romantic relationship desire love and commitment similar to heterosexual couples in romantic relationship. Just like heterosexual men, many gay men enjoy variety of sexual activity that includes kissing, touching, mutual masturbation, oral sex, and anal sex.

The sexual activity between gay couples may be penetrative or non-penetrative. Most men in gay sexuality do not consider anal intercourse as an important part of their sexual relationship and this is not what they want in a relationship. However, some may consider anal intercourse to be important if they are in a committed loving relationship with a right partner.

Many gay men enjoy mutual masturbation where both partner can masturbate each other simultaneously side by side or each partner can take turn to masturbate each other. Some gay men also enjoy masturbating in the presence of others while watching other people having sex in gay bar or in gay bathhouse.

Most gay sexuality preferred oral stimulation as part of their sexual activity. Oral sex is the most common sexual activity among gay men where both partners may enjoy giving, receiving, or both giving and receiving at the same time. Some may prefer to take turn giving only so he can enjoy the process of pleasing his partner, some may prefer to take turn receiving only so he can focus and enjoy the pleasure of receiving, and some may prefer to give and receive simultaneously so that both partners can enjoy the pleasure of giving and receiving at the same time.

Even though many do not consider anal intercourse as an important part of their sexual activity some may prefer anal stimulation during sexual interaction. Anal stimulation may involve rimming or anal penetration. Rimming involve the use of tongue to stimulate around the anus. Anal penetration may involve the use of fingers or penis to penetrate the anus.

There are numerous nerves ending on the anus and it can be very painful when anal penetration is not done correctly and when done correctly it can be very pleasurable. Rimming and anal intercourse have high risk of transmitting HIV virus and other sexually transmitted diseases from infected individual.

Despite the high risk of anal intercourse some enjoy relationship with multiple sexual partners and practice unprotected sex with the use of illegal drugs and alcohol. Many gay men prefer to be in long-term committed loving relationship with a single partner than having multiple sexual partners. Gay couples desire romantic relationship similar to romantic relationship between heterosexual couples.

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